Georgia Bilham is on trial at Chester Crown Court, accused of deceiving a 19-year-old girl and convincing her she was a male named ‘George’, a drug dealer from Birmingham
A woman accused of posing as a male drug dealer from Birmingham to sexually assault a teenager said she was “caught in a web of lies”.
Georgia Bilham, 21, allegedly deceived and lied to a 19-year-old woman, leading them to believe she was a man.
But, she claimed that she thought the woman she had sex with actually believed she was really a woman, and not a man.
That’s despite the fact, Chester Crown Court heard, that Bilham created a Snapchat account as George Parry, posing as a male drug dealer from Birmingham.
She also wore a hood when meeting the short-sighted complainant, and claimed she was paranoid because of her involvement with Albanian gang members.
Bilham has been charged with 17 sex offences, including sexual assault and assault by penetration. She denies the offences.
She was cross-examined by prosecutor Anna Pope and agreed to lying to her alleged victim.
Ms Pope said: “You knew she was not going to be sexually attracted to you as Georgia Bilham?”
The defendant replied: “I can’t answer that.”
Ms Pope said sex took place based on the complainant believing she was having sex with a man.
Bilham said she enjoyed no sexual gratification from the encounters.
And Bilham again said she believed the complainant knew she was a female but Bilham did not want to tell her who she really was.
Ms Pope continued: “Why didn’t you just say you are a female with a different name?”
Bilham replied: “Because I was caught in a web of lies.”
Ms Pope added: “You were getting a buzz out of deceiving her into believing you were a man. Is that what you were in it for?”
“No,” replied Bilham.
Earlier Bilham told the court she had been “a bit of a tomboy” when she was younger and had a difficult relationship with her mother after she split from her father when Bilham was a teenager.
Bilham said she had never wanted to change her gender to a boy, but had questioned her own sexuality and that her mother would “not be happy” if she was in a same-sex relationship.
Asked why she set up the fake Snapchat account pretending to be a boy, Bilham replied: “I just was not happy in myself. I just, it was just more like an escape. I don’t know.”
She added: “I was not confident in myself. It was a stupid thing to do. It was a way of not being me.”
Ms Pope asked the defendant: “Do you agree part of that ‘not being you’ was you being a girl?”
Bilham replied: “At the time, yeah.”
Bilham said after the first time they met in person the complainant messaged her to say “There’s something weird about you”, and blocked her on Snapchat.
But there continued an online “love-hate relationship” which became “toxic” at times, the court heard.
After Bilham passed her driving test in April 2021 they agreed to go for a drive together in the countryside, where they were together in her car for five hours.
On another drive on May 11, 2021 Bilham crashed her mother’s car into a hedge and police were called asking for her licence, which had her real name.
Bilham told the jury she believed a police officer called to the scene revealed to the complainant her true identity.
She said: “I think they told her I was female. It was not George, it was Georgia.”
She added: “I believe she knew about my gender the night of the crash.”
Bilham said she stayed overnight at the complainant’s home, sleeping in her bed, but always wearing a tracksuit with a hood-up.
Martine Snowdon, defending, asked Bilham, “You were touching her sexually. Did you think she thought you was a girl or a boy?”
“I thought she knew I was a girl since the crash,” Bilham said.
Bilham, of Bunbury Road, Alpraham, Cheshire, denies nine sexual assaults and eight counts of assault by penetration all between May to August 2021.
The trial continues.